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If you’re a man dealing with the prospect or the reality of a divorce, you might be wondering, “How strong do I have to be,” and “What exactly does it mean to be strong?” I am reminded of these questions as I was thinking about some old forgotten “love letters” and cards I found while…

Going through a divorce sucks, even for a man. There. I said it. But you were thinking it. So how’s that supposed to help you? Actually, two ways.  >>>>>>>>>

If you’re a man dealing with an unexpected divorce and looking for help or resources, click this link to watch my first appearance on the Manhattan-based cable TV show, Life Coach TV. I’m a trained and certified coach who has also been through the actual pain of a real divorce. I created a process based…

Thanksgiving has just ended and the (American) holiday season is getting into full swing. This is typically the time of year when we count our blessings and give thanks for them. If you’re in the midst of a troubled relationship, however, you may be thinking, “What blessings? What do I have to be thankful for?”…

It’s November and that means the fall and winter holidays are fast approaching. If you’re in the midst of a separation or moving into divorce territory, this can be one of the most dreaded times of the year. Why? Because it’s a time for traditions and family and laughter and celebration — some of the…

It seems everywhere you look lately, there are signs of confusion and doubt about the economy and where things are heading. Confusion causes fear and fear causes people to make bad decisions. (If you’re interested in the brain science behind that, give me a call at 516.216.4233). Couple this with the fact that money issues…

Surviving the Fog of Divorce: A Divorce Coaching Program for Men is such a unique offering, you might have some questions about what it is and how it works. Please take some time to read this Question & Answer interview with founder/creator Paul McGinniss before contacting/hiring him. 1. How long have you been coaching? I…

I read a blog today that described how more women are initiating divorces lately. I’m not sure if it is indeed a trend. I did, however, come across an AARP magazine article from 2004 titled, “A House Divided.” Written by Elizabeth Enright, the subtitle was “Divorce over 50 is on the rise. Women do the walking.…

While I was going through my divorce, I found it difficult (as a man) to find resources to help me weather the storm. I ended up in a church-based group pretty far from where I lived. It wasn’t my preference but it was all I could find. Disclaimer: I was raised Roman Catholic but I…

Are you moving into, going through, or coming out of a divorce?Has your future suddenly gone cloudy or disappeared completely?Are you looking for support from a man’s perspective?Do you want an objective and trustworthy sounding board?Do you feel like you’re lost in a fog? I know how you feel. I’ve been there. It was torture.…